Focusing On Yourself

Good afternoon my sisters! Last week some of us had the opportunity to experience a horse and carriage ride here locally. I learned so much more history about my hometown. It was nice to be in the presence of queens we enjoyed the moment. We enjoyed each other's company!!! For many of my adulthood years(until I reached the age of 38)I was all over the place mentally. Wondering why so many unfortunate situations took place in my life, why I had made many bad decisions, and why I chose to settle for different situations. At 38 my thought process started changing my first grandchild was born and I know I had to make a 360. I always held a steady job struggled a lot financially and moved so many times I couldn't even keep count anymore But God. I was ready for a change I was tired of living the way I had normalized. When I started focusing on me I lost a few people on my journey( I even had a person ask me why would I want to change)looking back those people were meant to be on the journey with me temporarily! I learned so many valuable lessons along the way. I didn't know who I completely was during those times. I didn't know I was valuable, that I mattered. I settled!! Once I identified what I felt were issues in my life and started resolving unresolved issues within myself. I grew, I obtained knowledge and wisdom of self. I was always interested in making sure everyone else was good and forgot about myself. When God removes something's weather it's unhealthy choices, unhealthy relationships, and toxicity don't fret don't be sad. Sometimes we take a loss to become who God has destined us to be and fulfill his purpose for our lives. I had fulfilled all of mine in the past and my cup was still empty. Once I focused on myself and forgave myself I really began living life. Life is beautiful! We may encounter ups and downs life happens. One thing I must say Peace, happiness and good health is worth more than any jewels or money!! Once I began to experience peace the rest was history. Focusing on myself allowed me to love me unconditionally and heal from all of the traumatic situations I encountered. Attached is something I listened to today and it makes a lot of sense! Live in your truth! Truth is power!https://youtu.be/TEZzGCvFrRE?si=9i2z_aBrHHJNtdxp